I need a kidney donor to save my life. We are born with two kidneys but only need one to live a long, healthy life. I was diagnosed with PKD (polycystic kidney disease) 20 years ago. I am asking you to read and share my story with others in the hope of finding me a donor.
In 2005, I got sick on a flight from NY to Baltimore. When I got home, I went to the hospital, and after a lot of pain and many hours in the hospital, I was diagnosed with PKD. PKD is a disease in which cysts form on the kidneys and ultimately lead to kidney failure. It leads to other health issues, such as high blood pressure, which I have. I am on two different medications for it.
PKD makes kidneys very large. Mine are to the point that I can feel them, and they are very uncomfortable.
There is no cure for PKD. I was on medication to slow the progression for a few years. In March, it became evident that the medication was no longer working for me as my function was declining more rapidly. I had surgery due to an unrelated issue that may have caused me to get to where I am today. I always knew a transplant was in my future, but I did not think
it would be this soon.
The benefit of having a living kidney donor over a deceased kidney donor is the reduced time on the waiting list, which could prevent complications and deterioration of my health. Currently, the wait time for a deceased donor is eight years. Dialysis serves as a temporary solution until a transplant is received. It is both physically debilitating and emotionally exhausting.
Finding one person willing to donate a kidney on my behalf will decrease my wait time from 8 years to a few months. A living donor will allow me to continue pursuing my passion for helping children and animals, enjoy life with my family and friends, and contribute to the community in which I live.
I am from Long Island, NY. I attended Towson University in MD and began my teaching career, making Baltimore, Maryland, my home. I have been a Pre-K Teacher in
Baltimore City Public Schools for 25 years.
I am passionate about helping children and animals. I’m a cat mom to Meeko and Sammy.
I enjoy working with and fostering animals. I have volunteered and fostered for BARCS Animal Shelter and have fostered
over 50 animals.
I love going to brunch, catching up with old friends, and talking with my mom about every day.
I can think of few people I know who are as kind and caring as Lori Raxenberg. Two of my children, Bixby and Twig, were fortunate to have her as their Pre-K teacher; both of them had never been to school or daycare before, and it was unknown how they would do, but they could not have loved it more and could not have been in better hands. When Bixby was in Pre-K and COVID happened, Lori always checked in with her students, including personally delivering supplies and plenty of virtual check-ins. A couple of years later, when I came to work at school with Lori, I saw really how much she does and how much she goes above and beyond to support the wellbeing of all the children she comes in contact with, not to mention every animal and every living thing. My children have a love for animals, which was fostered in Lori's classroom. I hope that all of these things can be taken into consideration; as someone who considers her a friend, I, of course, want her to be healthy, but she needs to be healthy to support all the little minds and hearts that benefit from her excellent Pre-K classroom and the hundreds that she has taught in the past that continue to benefit from her lessons and caring.
I personally have known Lori for well over ten years. She went from a colleague to Madison's teacher, to quickly a friend, and then Madison's Auntie Raxenberg. Let me explain how she became Auntie...Lori fights/advocates for kids and animals [lol, but like me-I truly believe she will literally fight you over kids]. I have seen this at our 1st 504 meeting. Lori spoke more than I did! She wanted to make certain in every instance that Madison was going to be protected, that there were alternatives for her dietary needs, and everyone knew protocols. Lori was able to relate on a personal level to Madison's special conditions. When I say she was on top of everything, she was on top of everything and even provided suggestions for Madison's health. Although Lori is not a mom to humans [she's a pet mom], she gives Madison the care only a mom gives. Knowing Madison was safe at school when I wasn't there, I felt at ease. When Madison had her awful encounter with a dog attack, it was Auntie Raxenberg who helped her overcome extreme anxiety. Auntie Raxenberg also sent her a replacement stuffy when a classmate stole the original one, which also came from teacher Raxenberg at the time. Although we are no longer colleagues, we remain good friends; she continues to check in and keeps me grounded when I'm having a difficult time. My apologies for the long post [with so many grammar errors], but this is because she's so dear to us, and we need her to spend many, many, many, more healthy years with us.
Ms. Raxenberg was Mohamad's very first teacher, and she holds a special place in his heart. In Pre-K, you expect your child to learn the alphabet and numbers, but Ms. Raxenberg definitely teaches her kids way more than that. She left an incredible influence on Mohamad's early years, shaping not just his education but his character as well. I’ll always be grateful to Ms. Raxenberg for teaching my son very important values in life at a very young age and in ways that the kid would never forget.
The love and care for animals is one of many lessons Ms. Raxenberg makes sure to teach all her kids, and one of the most important in shaping their characters and personalities. Mohamad still has a great habit of leaving food out for animals, especially in winter, and I do believe that it is a direct reflection of Ms. Raxenberg's teachings on compassion and caring for both animals and people. He tells me that he still remembers how when he was in Pre-K, they helped Ms. Raxenberg fill socks with rice so the little kittens at the shelter could use them to stay warm.
It is not easy at all to teach four-year-old children life lessons through play that they remember years and years later. My son learned, before he even went to kindergarten, that we can always help someone and that we should always include everyone when we play.
Ms. Raxenberg has always been giving from all her heart, and I know that she deserves the same ❤️
There’s so much our family can say about Ms. Lori Raxenberg. Our daughter, Naeila, was fortunate to have the opportunity to begin her school journey in PreK with such a nurturing teacher. What really made an impact on our daughter was the way Ms. Raxenberg incorporated the love of animals nton her classroom. She would have neighborhood shelters bring in kittens, and dogs so the students can have the experience to interact with the animals. It was such an amazing feeling! This is what encouraged our family to adopt pets for ourselves. Even after leaving PreK, our daughter, year after year,r still remembers the slightest experience. Like when the class made applesauce and she actually ate some, when supposedly she didn’t like apples! It was a lifetime memory made. Ms. Lori Raxenberg deserves to continue to have this impact on our children.
My goal is not to have to be on dialysis. Finding a living donor would increase my chances of achieving this goal. Receiving a new kidney could help lower my blood pressure and reduce the chances of heart disease and stroke.
A new kidney will allow me to help more children. If I get sicker and must go on dialysis, I will be away from my j
My goal is not to have to be on dialysis. Finding a living donor would increase my chances of achieving this goal. Receiving a new kidney could help lower my blood pressure and reduce the chances of heart disease and stroke.
A new kidney will allow me to help more children. If I get sicker and must go on dialysis, I will be away from my job, which means being away from my students for extended periods.
A new kidney will allow me to help more animals. Due to my health issues, I am currently unable to foster. Shelters are overwhelmed with animals, and I feel helpless. I want to be able to do more to help them.
Living kidney donation is when a healthy person donates one of their two kidneys while alive. Getting a kidney from a living donor has many benefits for the person who needs a transplant, who is called the recipient. If you are interested in donating a kidney, you will work with a transplant center at a hospital. The transplant center wil
Living kidney donation is when a healthy person donates one of their two kidneys while alive. Getting a kidney from a living donor has many benefits for the person who needs a transplant, who is called the recipient. If you are interested in donating a kidney, you will work with a transplant center at a hospital. The transplant center will make sure you are healthy enough to donate, do the surgery, and help you recover.
A few common requirements exist for people interested in making a living donation. You must be at least 18 years old. Some transplant centers require a donor to be 21 or even a little older. Some medical conditions, including uncontrolled high blood pressure, diabetes, or cancer, could prevent you from being a living donor.
Each transplant center has slightly different requirements, so you should always let the transplant center decide who would be a good donor. If you are approved as a living donor at one transplant center, you may be able to get evaluated at other centers that have different requirements.
I ask that you share my story and website via social media, email, and word of mouth.
By sharing my story, you will help save my life; someone may hear it and make the selfless decision to donate Your actions have the power to change lives..
Anyone interested in finding out more information confidentially without any obligation can visit
I ask that you share my story and website via social media, email, and word of mouth.
By sharing my story, you will help save my life; someone may hear it and make the selfless decision to donate Your actions have the power to change lives..
Anyone interested in finding out more information confidentially without any obligation can visit
https://www.umms.org/ummc/health-services/transplant/kidney/living-donor
I am registered at the University of Maryland Transplant Center. Recipients with living donors get transplants faster and have better outcomes.
Even if you cannot be the donor, you can play a valuable role by becoming a living donor transplant champion.
University of Maryland Medical Center and National Living Donor Assistance Center Financial Suppor
For additional information about testing/becoming a living kidney donor, please get in touch with the University of Maryland Transplant Center
call 410-328-5408 or download the living kidney donor guide.
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